NoDirection, I agree with you, and I feel the same way, after last night's C'ing session, I came back and posted a comment on my thread about this same thing.
I know that you don't want or need the same R, because you know that it can't work that way, with you doing all the work, and W just doing whatever, and not caring about the ramifications of her actions.
The only way things will work, is for both of you to change, and you are doing your part, now it is up to her, you are being the strong one, keep doing that. Let W go her own way. Let God decide whether your paths are meant to be one. Take care.
