If she is reading then maybe she can create an account and post also. I mean if she disagree's with people then she van voice her opinion.
I just had a humorous thought... Any time we discuss the DBing message board, my W lets me know how much she dislikes it and how I'm getting support from complete strangers. She always asks if I'm talking to friends and family about the situation as if that would be more healthy. (I had in the beginning, but decided it was better to not give them so many details) Anyhow I was thinking that maybe she's mad because there are no support groups out there for a cheating spouse.