hi Lin, I think it is the ow that will not let my H go. My H is very successful and her H is a bumb and they lived in the run down section of town. My H is very generous and Im sure he gives her many gifts, thats why I think she refuses to let him go. She was the drive-in teller at the bank where he did his banking so she knew his income. I found out H gave her a ring back in April. I think he planned on marrying her. But I try not to focus on the past and Im very grateful that he is back home. I talked to my MIL and she told me my H said he wasnt seeing her anymore and that she was going to go back to her H. My H said he doesnt care what she does, I hope this is true. The thing that I regret the most out of all of this is that my 13 yr old son knows whats going on and I feel like his childhood innocense was stolen from him.
