If I respected mysefl then I would demand the respect of NO OM CONTACT UNTIL WE ARE SPLIT UP. Yes I know in DBing they say she needs to be the one to stop but I have always said "if you let something happen and don't say anything about it then you are condoning it.
I have those same beliefs here. How can I sit and let the behavior continue without comment or action? By turning a blind eye, am I not simply saying "do what you want, it doesn't affect me"?
Maybe in DB'ing it's a necessary step to turn that blind eye. In hindsight, the time for action/comment was when things went south - not that we were were ever made aware that there was trouble brewing, but I guess there were signs that were missed or ignored.
H - anything I can do to help, you just let me know!
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Me: 39/W: 37 D13-D11-S8 M/T 14/20
EA confirmed: 9/13/07 D-Bomb: 9/19/07 OM Gone since 12/18/07 W wants to fix marriage: 3/16/07
