Thanks W2s, I know MLC isn't carved in stone, progressing along step by step. I don't know if I drag out the D if it will give her more time to come out of her fog. I guess I'm just trying to find out what others have done and had worked. I know what works for some won't work for others but it will give me some where to start.
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26