Hey J, not much to report really. I have been a little ill, I think it is from working around some mold at work. Feels like allergies and mold would definitely do that.

The talks with D19 and S10 went great. Now it's all about follow through.

I have been feeling pretty good lately as far as life goes. Not a lot going on. Decided it's time to grow a beard. Nothing earth shattering, just a little change for myself. I havent had facial hair in 17 years, W didn't like it, but who gives a crap about that anymore right?

I have been kind of taking a breather from the boards lately. I find myself being somewhat judgmental and having a hard time grasping some of what happens around here so I am kind of taking some time to not be on here so much.

Bottom line, I know where I stand with things in my R right now. I know where my core beliefs lie, and I don't think I need to be on here as much anymore.

It does get a bit frustrating watching the reactions of folks, how they interact with each other and the subtle things that go on that you wouldn't ever catch if you didnt know these people. I guess that time will fix that for me. If I am unaware of things, it is much easier. I remember when I came to the MLC forum and knew nothing and no one really. I was so confused, and I hate that now I am no longer as confused. When some of the lingo makes sense, it can be quite difficult for a person like myself who tends to be too aggressive when he posts.

Anyway, sorry for the little vent. I was truly intending on a simple update, never seems to work that way........


Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09