Catfan, you didn't leave 2 days ago. That would be kind of abrupt in your case.
Lost ~ You would have to have complete control over your emotions and inform your wife in a matter of fact way that you were coming home. If you can't pull that off, and it is doubtful this early in the game, you shouldn't do it. I tried to post this from work earlier but the freakin' computer locked up and I had to leave. I will get more familiar with your sitch this evening.
