I hope I didn't keep you up too late....hopefully you'll get to sleep early tonight & get well.
The kid issues really do ratchet up the difficulty in finding solutions to work best for all involved. It's almost always having to pick the best of the worst, isn't it.
I still believe your W has yet to feel the impact of 4 kids w/out you there full time.
Anyway, thinking of you & sending a hug & some kisses.