Sunday he asked me to bring the kids to him. Didn't want to but did. (I won't go in the house) Today he wants me to pick them up from there. Now I don't get out of work until 6, so I won't be there until 6:30. Then by the time I get home and get dinner it will be 7 or later. Is this fair? In my mind, if he was the one to leave and cause this mess he should be the one doing the pick up and drop offs. He picked them up at my house and took them to his so that he could do laundry he said, rather than sit at our house and do nothing until I got home 2 1/2 hrs later. I know someone in our group said she had something written up that stated that her ex would do all the driving of the kids, she has never seen his place. I agree with that! Again, I am a doormat so I said I would. And if I hadn't there would be an argument that I don't want and I would be the bad guy. I never wanted this and now it just keeps finding more ways to screw me.
And on top of home life my work life is a wreck. My company is barely making ends meet and now my supervisor and another higher supervisor have quit. So now who knows who I will get and what freedom they will allow me, something I especially need with all this going on. P.S. I've been there 23 yrs and have 5 weeks vacation, so I don't want to change jobs and lose that. Sigh
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08
