Still Hoping for Hope

[missmyfriend]

And that is standing for marriage, Lis! You are awesome!

I had to add Lis, that of all the people on the board, I am not sure if anyone understands quite like I do what you have gone through with Puffy. Puffy is the same as my father. My mother still loves my father, 25 years after she could not take him anymore because he was an adulterer and did not take care of his family. He put himself first always. My mother thought she quit loving my dad but she realized years later that wasn't the case. He died 10 years ago this January at the young age of 61. He never changed even when she gave him multiple chances to do so. If he would've changed, I know my mom would have opened up her arms to him. But he didn't and he was not healthy to have around. In fact, somewhat dangerous. I love my dad and I miss him but he never cared about anyone more than himself.

So Lis, people have to stand for their marriage in different ways and protect their heart like my mom did. I see so much strength in you Lis. I see you standing for Moises and Mia.

Sorry, not-so-nutty, for hijacking your thread.