Good points, oltimer. I saw the guy as being very generous. As a lover, I tend to be generous, but only one of my partners (y'all know who) reciprocated at the same level.
It didn't strike me that he was doing all the work and not getting much back. It struck me that he was giving without focusing on when it was going to be his turn.
I can't see why so many of you saw him as being too giving, over the top, controlling.
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scarcity did influence me to see the guy as doing all of the work and not getting much in return.
If that scenario had been written about a woman doing "all the work" I probably would have had the same reaction as Lou, because I identify with a female partner who does all the work and gets little back.
However, since the scenario involved a guy doing the work and the woman being pleasured, I was thinking how nice it would be to have a really generous lover again.
