My problem today is that I know W is texting everyday to OM that lives on the opposite coast. I stopped snooping so don't know a lot of new details. She admits that she is talking with someone and that she likes him, but will admit to nothing more. She does not see it as cheating since in her words we are separated and she did say she would see others if the opportunity arose. Obviously I am extremely upset by the situation and feel pretty helpless. I guess deep down I know it will probally never turn into anything especaially due the distantance. They have been talking for the past 2 months I think they meet at a club while he was in town.
I have been trying to DB and keep my emotions in check, but today she really tested that. She called all excited saying work is sending her out of town in Jan and yes it happens to be the city the OM lives in. I of course am upset and just said Ok see you at 3:15 our kids teacher conference. She gets upset and say maybe we should not talk if you can't be happy for me I just said goodbye. After this she called me every 5 minutes and I did not answer. She left a message which by the way was just 10 minutes after our call that we should not talk, the message said I really wanted to talk to you the girls at the office got me some cool gifts and decorated my office and I wanted to chat etc. She sounded upbeat and like she just forgot our conversation 10 minutes ago, but I think she was worried about what I might know or whatever. She has no idea that I know who OM is and where he lives. Hard to be upbeat and nice with her when I know for sure she will be seeing OM. Maybe the trip is a work one, but she definetly was trying to take it to see OM. She never travels with work and I know she is doing this to see him.
I have so far today fought back my urge to confront her, but don't know what I will do when I see her in 2 hours from now.
Me - 34 W - 33 S - 5 D - 4 M - 14 years Bomb 1 Dec 06 Bomb 2 Aug 07 Separated - Aug 07 WAW Renting own place - Dec 07
