Need Help/ Suggestions - Part 2

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Rain,
Thank you very much for the words of encouragement. As I think about the whole sitch, I can see teh benefits of having both of us there. But the problem is, is that she is not there. Even last night she took our son out with her to watch MNF. She did not come home until 12:45 in the morning. But yet she says our S is her top priority.

The effects on her R with our son are already evident. She came home from a weekend away and all my S did when she came home was smile at her. Everyday when I get home from work I hear him running to the door. She knows that our son would rather be with me. I also see the relationship getting worse as time goes on.

As I think about this whole mess and what our son sees, the idea of D has become a viable option. I pray that God's will be done in all of this but her free will to do things on her terms is breaking us up. I have come to a point that even if we were to work it out, do I really want to go back to the relationship we had? She is not going to change her ways. She is not going to do things any differently than before. Why should I go back to that?