A lot of it is going to depend on how much time you spend with your daughter. I would strongly suggest joint custody, 50-50. I would also suggest that you call her on a regular basis. This way she knows you care that you are there and you are interested in her. Also make sure she has all of your contact information easily available. This way if she feels like it she can contact you ANYTIME.
Also don't say divorce just tell her and best done jointly, that you and mommy won't be living together for a while, that you both love her very much and that she will continue to see and talk to you on a very regular basis.
Last edited by catfan; 11/13/0708:49 PM.
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