I would really appreciate some help with this one....
If you read my previous post, you will see that I have asked my husband to consider going for a Retrouvaille weekend. I have not heard an answer yet as I am still at work today.
I have a chance to, stay at an empty house from Nov 7 onward until Jan 7. I would go home of course for Christmas and for Christmas eve. But I am seriously considering telling my husband that I need a break and that if he needs to get a hold of me he can call me there. I wish he would just miss me
I will absolutley miss him more than he would miss me and maybe that is why I'm wanting to do this. To see if he really has anything left for me. I would also tell my kids that if they want to come by they are more than welcome.
I do know that it would really be hard on me if he didn't call and that maybe I'm just dreamimng thinking that he would. Would I be crushed if he didn't care....yes but at least I would know where we are.
I'm just wondering what it would be like when I got home...
Would we be more distant?
I don't know and as with everything else I'm just reaching in the dark for some answers... I know patience is the best answer and maybe this will back fire on me
I just want some input and maybe someone to tell what would be the best way
What would you do if you were in my situation?
Just throwing it out there....
"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"
