Mtn - you always make me feel better when you post. I realise how much of our attitude is in our own hands, especially if we don't have small children. I feel my h is the crazy stage [still!!] and there is nothing I can do about it except let him spin. I don't think he was full blown NPD, but tipped over into the fringes of it in MLC. It is a difficult disorder to treat, as typically [as you know] the 'sufferer' denies there is a problem. Mysteriously it is always other people.

I am busy with work, loving living in London. I really like living alone, which surprises me. I can be as eccentric as I wish, and as slobbish as I wish [and can stand]. . . .

My colleague and I looked at what we had to do before close of play Friday [and she is working Saturday too, but not on one of my projects] and realised for 6 person days there was about 9 days work, so we opened a bottle of wine, and had a couple of glasses. My tube journey home is a little hazy. So tomorrow will be a long day.

But I am lucky to have work that I like.

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