OT, GD, Puddle -- I know you are all right, except that I can't get rid of that little voice that says getting her to talk somehow/someway is the way back. There's a good chance that voice is wrong, but I'm just not sure.
That's strange. I was just having the same thought. I was looking through my sent emails and realized just how much I haven't contacted W. I haven't sent her anything unless I was responding to her email for about a month now. Same thing with the cell phone. I don't think I've initiated a call in the same amount of time. Doesn't seem to be working. She really seems to have just gotten more distant. At what point do you accept that not talking isn't working and you try something else? Anybody out there got wise words for me and Heim?