ImLIN, Thanks for the input. I think it's a choice,but I think that you can lead someone to the choice, influence them perhaps? And if you do, is it "manipulation"? and would that be bad? I don't think you, or I, or most of us, are Using are spouses and trying to trick them into loving us, but could it seem that way to them or to someone on the outside? I think the DB and DR books address this issue, but I don't remember the argument they use. Do you?
not only do I chose to make my M more than just 2 people who like each other and occassionally ML, I won't settle for less than an intimate relationship. I will Choose to make it as wonderful as is possible. Thanks for reminding me and re-enforcing that for me.
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread
