We moved about a year after we got married to TX, for all of 6mos before that fell through. He really does see moving as making it all better. He thinks he'll be happier in a different job, or a different state. He's always changing his mind about his career and always brings up other things he wants to do (become a nurse, PA, detective, organ harvestor, work at the airport, at the college, undercover, etc...). I told him that he will never be happy no matter what he does, because he's an unhappy person to begin with. (I guess that wasn't nice, that was months ago, before the sep. I'm much nicer now). I don't think he'll take me being non-committal. His email was pretty clear that I need to agree to go to TN. I posted a copy of his email a page or so back in this thread.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."