Lil Geez, you people. What I liked was his enthusiasm and willingness, something I NEVER see in my life.
Yes the guy's enthusiasm was great but what I saw through my own filter was I do many of those same things and sex still is bad.
No I don't do all the things the guy did, but I thought I did more than enough to get things going in the right direction.
something I NEVER see in my life. Well, not in your current R. It sounds like your H was willing to do some of these things. One of your former partners was enthusiastic about several of the things. BB was enthusiastic at one time for several years.
That is commonly the problem, we experienced enthusiasm at one time, at least when it came to some elements of the guy's example.
I suppose if I saw things more optimistically, like you did, I could see the situation from a point of abundance.
Not being in environment of abundance, but scarcity did influence me to see the guy as doing all of the work and not getting much in return. Like I said before, that was my filter.
Speaking of abundance, well BB and I were there at one time even when things around us were not abundant.
I can say I have been around abundant people, but rarely in a generally abundant environment.
It was a lesson for me to take your POV, how nice it would be to be served. I still have a BIG problem when someone tries to serve me. I even volunteer to do other people’s taxes. Yes, that is a new church related service program I joined. “Link & Learn, Coming Together to Strengthen Communities”
So far so good.
Don’t wheel yourself too far away. I bet others will see it from your POV (abundance) too, instead of something that we doubt we will ever achieve.
