I have heard so many lies from her that I trust my 11 year old more over her and at this point, I do not have much respect for the WAW and do not care about our relationship, friendship or reconcilliation. She has changed in respect of how she treats and interacts with the children and does not spend a great deal of time with the older ones, never takes them out for fun, etc.
If I could take the children, I would. I do not feel at this point in time that I would take the WAW back if that was ever an option. She has changed for the worse where these children are concerned and maybe as a whole.
Have a great day.
Foo.
Foo fighter, Her situation is going to unravel quickly. She put herself in the mess you see. These were her choices. She can be as mad at you as she wants but this is on her tab. Let her own it by keeping your cool. Keep an eye out on the kids well being. Keep them safe at all costs. Keep moving forward with your career. Everything else will follow.
I know you do not recognize her at the present time based on the out of character decision making. Just look at her as a broken individual who fundamentally believes they had no other choice but to do what they thought was best. That helped me to let go of the rope I was holding for my X.
At the end of the day, she is their mother and lost. It is up to you to show her how a grounded, centered parent navigates life. I spent an 1/2 hour counseling my X wife today about her current marriage. She is ready to cut and run. I urged her to stick it out. Why is she calling me about this stuff? Because I walked it like I talked it. All things come full circle sooner or later Foo.
