jar,

Haven't been on all wkend.. Read through your updates.. cannot freakin believe her!!! How dare her take your kids with om kids and act like this is all hunky dorey???? Your not even Divorced!! That just makes me so sick!! DO NOT GIVE HER ANY COMPLIMENTS OR NICE GESTURES>...Please, don't... she doesn't deserve any of it!!! I know you are going dark.. and that's exactly what I would have told you to do!!

I happen to like Darth Vader (star wars fan ..lol).. so DO IT!! Don't call her back unless it has to do with the kids ONLY.. For her to say she is so in love with this guy and then play games with you... she is a PLAYER! and she will get hers in the end.. I firmly believe what comes around goes around.

Your girls will always love you.. don't worry about that.. they are not looking at the situation like you are, they are young. Its just other kids to play with, but really for her to bring them to a holiday dinner.. NO WAY.. She is a rude, selfish person, that doesn't even deserve what your willing to give, they deserve each other.

I am thinking of you and hoping you stay strong!

tal


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.