Oh yeah, she accused me of making decisions without considering the long term consequences, but not really in an attempt to avoid the pain. More that it was a tendency of always just looking for what's best for me short term, or at least what I think is, often without thinking it through, next thing you know it's done and I regret it. And it's not so much that it hurts to not argue as it is that I feel she is just so uncomfortable with me there, she doesn't feel like she can do or say anything without worrying I'll take it wrong, so she is always on edge, waiting for some conflict, I feel she'd be better able to find some peace and look at our situation with eyes more open than if I am always there in her space and she's constantly struggling with just "us' and our conflicts. And trust me, I've been hurt by a lot of things in the last month, a few more comments from her isn't going to hurt any more than it does already.
Me:46 Her:40 Daughter:7 She Dropped Bomb:10/7/07 She Filed Papers w/State:10/30/07 I Left Home:11/11/07 I Moved Back In:11/13/07 My Outlook: I want nothing more than a future together and will do whatever it takes. Her Outlook: Been too long coming, I'm done.
