He is paying something. Voluntary, nothing court ordered. I think he considers it half the mortgage and medical for himself and kids. I am told by lawyers that it is probably more than I would get by their charts so I don't question it for now.
The room has never had heat. He grew up in it. It is on the 2nd floor and the other room across from it had the heat so you have to leave the door open to heat the entire floor upstairs. Stupid, I know. His father finished it in the 50's when they bought it and did that. He actually likes it cold. Guess he is used to it.
The kids ended up having peanut butter sandwiches.
If I make things difficult for him he will do the same back and he can do more damage to me than I can to him. And I don't want it to get nasty.
How depressing, went for my annual GYN today and told him the news. He wanted to check me for STD's! I started crying. Everyone assumes there is an OW. He talked to me about anti-depressants, he was really nice. Bet he had to clear out the cobwebs for the exam!
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08
