Now I don't know that I can go back to the house, wifes parents have offered to let me stay at their empty house, wife thinks coming back will be bad for daughter, wife doesn't want me back, I'm just a mess over here.
This isnt a "can't" situation. Dont take a cop-out on the decision and pretend you dont have a choice in the matter. you Do have a choice.
The longer you wait to move back, though.. the more difficult it will be. Dont wait another day!!!!
reguarding "wife thinks coming back will be bad for your daughter"...
there's two things to say about that:
1. see prev. post, re: [doing the right thing, doesnt always make your wife happy right away]
2. I'd say that what your wife really thinks will be bad for your daughter, is you coming back, and then LEAVING AGAIN.
Make the decision to come back, and then NOT LEAVE AGAIN.
and again..dont try to argue about it with your wife. you know it's the right thing to do, but you're scared of dealing with your wife's opposition to it.
She wont keep opposing it, once you show her that you're not going to do it again.
give it two weeks, with you there, and your mouth shut to arguments, and see what happens.
Last edited by Dom R; 11/13/0705:04 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
