Can you please point out the exact post re the impulsive behavior? There have been several, to say the least.
the one that starts with, "I'd say it's all about not making decisions, ...."
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You metaphor didn't really do it for me, I can see where she may be mad at me regardless of what direction I choose from here, but I don't see where she is setting anything up, wouldn't I be doing that since I was the one with the actions, she was the one with the feelings?
My point was not really about whether or not your wife was "settimg you up" for a lose-lose situation. My point with the car story, is that you cant always base your decisions on "does it make my wife immediately happy?" Or even "does it make my wife 'less' angry?" Sometimes, doing the right thing, wont make your wife happy. but you still need to do it anyway.
Make more sense?
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
