Both good suggestions. How does one approach a counselor to determine if they are what one is looking for? Never researched counselors before.
Well here's what I did, I got a list of counselors together from various sources, read their web sites to narrow down further. Then called each told them I was looking for a counselor but wanted to "interview" them first. Every one of them agreed and only one asked me to pay for her time which I gladly did. In the end she was my pick too.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa