Originally Posted By: craig54
PUD, it is great to see that db'ing really can have results, even small ones. my wife has shown me no affection for weeks. but she is alot more comfortable around me than she was 3weeks ago. so i can deal with that. thing to remember is no expectations, no reactions , just understanding.


Good advice Craig. We all want results immediately and we have to remember that results may take a long time. I haven't seen affection for a long time and I relized last night that H laughing at our house was progress. He told me the day before he feels a lot of anxiety at our house, so laughing was a big step.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
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