OK, you lost me now.

Yes, I/We are a Christian family, the first person I told about my wife telling me she wanted a divorce was our pastor, not because of any extra strong bond, but because I wanted someone impartial and with a strong shoulder.

Can you please point out the exact post re the impulsive behavior? There have been several, to say the least.

You metaphor didn't really do it for me, I can see where she may be mad at me regardless of what direction I choose from here, but I don't see where she is setting anything up, wouldn't I be doing that since I was the one with the actions, she was the one with the feelings?


Me:46
Her:40
Daughter:7
She Dropped Bomb:10/7/07
She Filed Papers w/State:10/30/07
I Left Home:11/11/07 I Moved Back In:11/13/07
My Outlook: I want nothing more than a future
together and will do whatever it takes.
Her Outlook: Been too long coming, I'm done.