Grace ... you are right, why do I worry about what others think. Why am I standing? *Because I do think that I had a good marriage (perfect no, but good). Because I took my commitment to my marriage seriously and I believe "in sickness and in health". Because I think my children deserve to have one intact family. My hope is that my marriage will be restored so that my children can see for themselves that commitment is not a bad thing. I stand because I love him and I loved being married.