Sounds like you are still doing good I remember going 10 days without an R-talk and it seemed like forever. She will bring it up when she is ready so wait until then. Don't worry right now about the comments that she sees you have accepted things and are doing a good job moving on. When the day comes that she wants to have an R-talk make sure you do a lot of listening.
By the way I was a lot like you about being very non-emotional it is something that has to be worked on. I say was I still am really, but I have gotten a lot better.
Me - 34 W - 33 S - 5 D - 4 M - 14 years Bomb 1 Dec 06 Bomb 2 Aug 07 Separated - Aug 07 WAW Renting own place - Dec 07