Walk Away Wife - My Sitch

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I don't think it is necessary to 'show her' the changes you have made - it will come across in your conversations and if/when you spend time together again. It's a good sign that she is calling a couple of times - If she is coming to you, then be positive and interesting when she contacts you. She'll do it again if it's a good experience.

Thanks Brit. It's hard to see the small good things sometimes. I try to prepare myself before I talk to her. I try to play out the conversations in my head so that I can make sure that I avoid any hurtful subjects. I try to mostly focus on her and let her talk. She does ask what I've been up to, but so far I've been pretty coy in answering that question. I haven't brought up any of the things that I'm doing different in my life to make it more positive. I think one part of DR is that I can't just tell her about the changes I've made because she won't believe it. I have to wait for her to see how I'm different for her to really believe that I'm GALing. Is this right, or should I be telling her what I've been up to?