Sorry you've had to come here but glad you did. Do not give her an ultimatum under any circumstances not unless your goal is divorce. If you give her an ultimatum you practically guarantee divorce. Why because giving an ultimatum is going to be viewed as a highly controlling action and the last thing a WAW wants is a controlling husband.


If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa

Me-44
W-42
S-11/8/06, D-9/12/08
M-19 1/2 yrs
D13, D11
Bomb-10/06