what? that is inconceivable! you should've have to send them with food! perhaps a snack or so but this has to stop, he has to take full responsability.
=========== ... I for obviously reasons will not discuss this with him ...didn't have much for them to eat ============== why? if anything, kids sometimes are the only reason separated couples talk to each other. Is he paying child support? what is his excuse for having you provide food on his time? I do think this should be discussed, H should be providing beds not you, and the room has no heat? that is no correct, if a social service person where to know that he would'nt be allow to do that.
I wouldn't let my kids go with their father under those conditions, that's my 2c
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.