Limbo,this is facinating, and wonderful. It sounds very right. I think Retro is definitely something to look into.

I personally love your H's idea that he has to make amends but that he doesn't feel it's a punishment. That sounds so healthy.

I'm really happy for you both and wish continued joy for you.

Saffie, I think you're right. Maybe my W's apology wasn't given at the right time for me. Maybe later it will mean more, as mine will to her.

M45, W45,S15, D10,
Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07
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