I have just been reading your thread and catching up and it made me cry limbo.

Your H sounds like he is really trying with this and committing himself to the process. WOW

I read much earlier on the thread LN , (I think it was), say that they had got an apology and that by itself it didn't mean much. I just want to say that my H apologised a year down the line for all the pain he had caused by his A and it really did help. We both did things to bring our M to the point that caused him to have an A, but for him to acknowledge that the A was so wrong and just caused MORE hurt was fantastic. These things have a time and a place for them to be said and have meaning. He had already shown me by his actions that he was sorry but the words just were the icing on the cake.

Think you may need to change your thread name \:\)

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength