Well, I can tell you that we had MAJOR issues/problems in our M and that's how we ended up in the D sitch. Luckily, he decided to give it a 2nd shot, but we both did or didn't do A LOT for years to truly mess up our M. Thankfully, I've been forced to learn a lot about M's, etc. and won't forget the lessons I've learned. It was very touch & go there for a long time. He was pretty deadset on leaving and was DONE.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10