If she is reading then maybe she can create an account and post also. I mean if she disagree's with people then she van voice her opinion.
She can't disagree with the fact that it is terrible that a spouse has an affair and breaks up a marriage. That children who deserve an intact family will always wonder why this happened. There will come a day when they do find out the truth and then will they ever look at the cheating parent the same way. Kid's are forever changed when they go through a divorce. The ideal of it always looks way easier then to fix the hard problems we are faced with. It is the chicken's way out and unfortunately this world we live in is just so numb anymore the word divorce. It is the fix all to everything. They will be magically happy again. They don't really think about how the children feel when they are shipped off from parent to parent. It tears them apart that they don't know each year who they are going to spend Christmas with. They can't even fully enjoy the holiday anyway because either way they are missing one parent. When they go to a friend's house and they see other parents in love it hurts them. They feel shame in talking about how their parents are divorced. They go through this life of living like this. But believe me children will wonder why this happened. WHY their family was ripped apart. That's when you get to say to them Hope that you loved their mother very much. You wanted more then anything to save this marriage. But she had affair and it broke up the marriage. She wanted out to find herself and her happiness. Right now she is only in her fantasy world where she can have her fun. She isn't really understanding or wanting to think about what this will do to her children for the rest of their lives.
