I'd like to add that's what the presenters say the first night - you will not lose anything by going. The worse case scenario is that you leave exactly as you came on Friday evening.

My H and I are in the post sessions (we had #2 this past Sunday) and it's helping him look within and figure his feelings out. He says he does not love me (or have those feelings) but he is still willing to try...baby steps is all I can get right now. We did not have some huge relationship altering weekend but it did start to remove the fears I had and we no longer feel so paralyzed in moving forward (together or apart is still the issue...)

Good Luck!

HB


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