Daughter did not know I had come home, she was asleep the whole time I was there. I believe my wife when she says that my inability to reason through some things before acting, to be so impulsive, to be so compulsive, isn't good for our daughter. I will be over there tmrw night for a while, likely Thursday and again over the weekend. I feel I need to get me a little straight before I try and keep our daughter satisfied that dads home.

There was no fighting tonight, just a short discussion with me realizing what's taken me so long to understand. If I can't fix me, I have no hope of fixing us later.

Last edited by LostInMN; 11/13/07 06:34 AM.

Me:46
Her:40
Daughter:7
She Dropped Bomb:10/7/07
She Filed Papers w/State:10/30/07
I Left Home:11/11/07 I Moved Back In:11/13/07
My Outlook: I want nothing more than a future
together and will do whatever it takes.
Her Outlook: Been too long coming, I'm done.