Dom, I'm afraid you misunderstood. I went home, yes, but after talking with her, decided that even though I want to be there, she doesn't want me there now and doesn't want to play Daddy's Home pinball with our daughter so I left again. I agree that I am very lucky to have her tell me what she feels is the ultimate factor in her wanting to stay or leave, but I don't know where to start on something that has likely taken 30 years to develop and I can't really even put my finger on. I expect it to take a long time to get better, if it ever does, and I have nothing but time, I want this woman in my life forever.

Last edited by LostInMN; 11/13/07 06:22 AM.

Me:46
Her:40
Daughter:7
She Dropped Bomb:10/7/07
She Filed Papers w/State:10/30/07
I Left Home:11/11/07 I Moved Back In:11/13/07
My Outlook: I want nothing more than a future
together and will do whatever it takes.
Her Outlook: Been too long coming, I'm done.