I know that DB isn't about getting my spouse to change. I don't expect her to change anything, I do realize that it's been MY actions that have driven us apart over the years, what I would like to accomplish by her reading the book is maybe seeing that she is not the first person to feel the way she does, that people do get past the same issues we are facing and can be even stronger. Maybe I've been beating around the bush subconsciously as to what's really going on inside me, looking for the answers in all the wrong places. All I know is that I've gotta get my brain in gear and my sheet together, I seriously doubt I can get her back from where I've driven her to but I have to try. Anyone know a good counselor?
Me:46 Her:40 Daughter:7 She Dropped Bomb:10/7/07 She Filed Papers w/State:10/30/07 I Left Home:11/11/07 I Moved Back In:11/13/07 My Outlook: I want nothing more than a future together and will do whatever it takes. Her Outlook: Been too long coming, I'm done.
