all seems good. I have been reading some archives on MLC and one of them mention about how long it takes for her H to let go of OW She was very patient and just waited. Not sure if I can wait that long. Also read that the road to coming back is not easy. Her h came and left a few times before finally recommitting. Gave me hope. I just have to learn to shut my mouth and wait. Wanted to say this because in her situation, OW did call, many times. That's when OW gets deperate. I know my H will never give her our home number so I don't have to worry about that part. Though I sometimes fantasize about her calling so I can tell her how sorry I am for her having such low-esteem as to having to live on someone's husband and basically take charity crumbs from my h now.