Just found out

[Michael Mc C]

First, my wife tells me she wants me to be happy too. And I believe her. The thing is, she wants me to be happy without her. Plain and simple.

As for your family, its too bad they can't make it out. Can you meet half way? Do you have any idea why their not trying to make an effort?

Family isn't the only support group available. Spend time with friends or take time to make new friends. Easier said than done in some situations but see what you can do.

As for when to give up... That is completely up to you. DB'ing says you can fight it all the way to the D and even beyond. However, it all depends on what's inside of you (not a measurement of strength, a measurement of what you're willing to go through to TRY to save your marriage).