she'll cr*p her pants when I tell her I have already prepared to go as well!
I love it!!!!
You know, I accept all invitations to H's family stuff and plan on doing so until THEY tell me otherwise. I will never make it difficult on them or uncomfortable. I would prefer they 'side' with H if we are over, does that make sense? But, I love them and they love me, so at this time, H can make HIS choice whether to go, I am going. lol
Can't wait to hear about her reaction!!
PS: I find I am less worried about eggshells these days as well. Aaaah, freedom...