What a good year this has been.....

[forever21]

Kev!!!!!

Thank you!!!!

I am feeling better, and you gave me some smiles and laughs here too.
Though I know you are serious.
This makes such a huge difference for me. This kind of support is just what I needed right now.

Okay....

Of course, there's option 2, which is much more simple. Tell him to go jump in the lake, and forget about the whole thing.

Option 2 is the one I have been leaning toward, but my C saved me from that by telling me to do it this way.... let H pay for me to consult with a L to give me more info before I make a decision. The decision is still mine regardless of what the L says of course.

I like how you think! Do you think your first "option" would be effective enough by email? Here's why I ask.....

I haven't spoke with H since Tuesday morning... a week ago... because of the pressure. I had set a boundary that I'd only talk with him again if it was with a mediator, and I don't want to back down on that. The mediator suggested I wait until after the appt with L before trying to discuss this with H... and it would just be a phone conciliation anyway because of scheduling. I could ask those questions during that. I know it might be helpful to have already covered these bases before I see the L on Wednesday.

Thanks for the other info too.... I will keep the appraisal in mind. H did say there was one. And you're right, I do need to contact the credit bureaus.

Hope you're doing great! You sound like it.

(((((Kman)))))