I think you're so right to be skeptical!! I'm glad you're taking care of yourself.
I like Kev's suggestions.
You could also put a fraud alert on with the credit reporting agencies. It's mostly voluntary in that some places might grant the credit anyway, but it's free and it's one more layer of protection. I had to do this with mine (due to trash stolen from a bank..).. I'd say 80% of the time when I apply for credit they are now extra vigilant in asking me for verifying info. So.. it can be a bit of a hassle but may be worthwhile if you are suspicious.
I agree, you sound introspective but better. ((f21))
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