Still Frustrated-but moving ahead

[Matilda2]

(((Penny)))

[Dr LOve]

really bad for the kids.
He had finally kinda had found a new girlfriend and was getting back on track. You just never know....

This thought crosses my mind alot. I think what if life ended right now. Is this how I want it to end?

Sorry to hear about your friend.

Husband

[JoieDeVivre]

H,
I hear you! All the more reason for us to GAL! Life has no guarantees.

Penny, I, too, am sorry to hear about your friend.

Joie

[Yoyowife]

Penny,
That is so heart breaking about your friend. I'm so sorry. Those poor kids had to go through a divorce now this...

[PennyMB]

Thanks guys,

It does make you think that you need live life to the fullest. Joie I love the saying "Don't pursue happiness, create it" .

It is going to be heart breaking for those kids but he had alot of friends that will be there for them. But it does make you think how really short life is. I like H would this be the way I would like it to end? We need to not waste any more time and GAL for all of us. It is so tough but I know all of us can do it. Its just a long old road. I haven't heard from my H in 2 days. The OW must have had today off. but for the first time I think ever I didn't make myself feel bad. I got a lot of things done and enjoyed my son and his GF and talked to my other S. Didn't have tha anxiety that usually comes. Good Feeling!!!

Thanks guys for the support. Have a good evening.

[saffie]

Penny I am so glad you managed to make yesterday a good day after the bad news at the weekend. It really does make you stop and rethink things a bit when something so awful happens.

You take care.

(((((HUGS)))))))

Saffie

[Matilda2]

Glad to hear you sounding so positive!

[Yoyowife]

Hi Penny,
Hope you are doing okay.

[PennyMB]

Hi yoyo,

I'm OK. Yesterday was really really tough. My H came by in the morning and one of the boys rode with him and one with me to the funeral. He was kinda short yesterday but I think his emotions were on high from loosing one of his best friends. He got nicer and thanked me for being supportive of our friends kids. It was just a tough deal over 1000 people at this funeral. This guy had an influence on alot of people and kids it such a shame. M H came home for a while the boys were there the he left. He told me he had plans for Thanksgiving if we could have dinner at my parents another day. I didn't want to make a scene with the boys there but I am so mad. Now i don't know whether to just leave it a lone or confront him and tell him he is letting her come between his boys and him. I told him he should have learned yesterday how important yesterday was. He is definitely in a mlc. He thinks that he won't move a head if he comes home. He will fall right back in this old ways. She does have control on him....Any advice anyone?

Thanks

[saffie]

Won't your boys let him know how dissapointed they are? Maybe that would have a bigger effect on him that you telling him.

After the funeral you just can't believe he would act like that!!

(((((HUGS)))))

Saffie