Hmmm....I think maybe my lack of experience is coming through. My only experience has been with cac and as far as I know, he prefers to O during I/C. I guess I just wasn't thinking that that wouldn't or couldn't be the case for everyone.
We have O'd simultaneously (or pretty close together) a lot because it just works out that way. My O's are much stronger and much more preferable with him inside (something to squeeze).
When I said "crabby," I meant I was hoping someone would find something generally positive about this scenario... whatever this man's faults and failings as a lover, his partner cannot likely call herself "sex-starved."
Oh, OK, I see what you're saying. I didn't see it as completely negative, just too much of good thing, if there is such a thing. I honestly didn't view their sex life as either sex-starved or sex-full. He said she O's every time. He didn't say how often they have sex. I O every time (except for when I took SSRIs). Yet, I have always been in a SSM. I had the impression that this guy's wife would be LD if he wasn't doing all this stuff. LD people don't typically feel sex-starved anyway. But maybe after doing all this stuff, HE isn't sex-starved.
That probably doesn't help at all, does it?
One of these days I'll rent the movie and let you know what I think.
