Sues, Joie is right they do act like 12 year olds. It's like last Monday night when my H got mad at me because I had talked to the OW's ex H on the phone. Wow, come one I just talked to him, he slept with her. Their anger is definitely misdirected! They are in such a fog, they can only see our "wrongs" not their own. You know what my husband said when I compared our misdeeds? Two wrongs don't make a right!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon